Why I stopped taking the bare minimum
Have you stopped and asked yourself do you take the bare minimum?
Really ask yourself..
“Self” why do you do that?
Why only take what someone gives you?
Let’s do a checklist:
Do you run over puppies on the weekends?
Do you cut people in a line?
Do you steal?
Are you a pathological liar?
You are none of these?
So, again, why do you only accept the bare minimum in life?
How do you feel like you deserve that?
Your worth is measured by how someone is treating you
What they give you in your life
Not always in gifts
How you overall treat me
If those people can’t see they are giving you the bare minimum then demand it
Force them to understand
If they don’t then you have your answer
People only give us what they think we deserve
People only give us what they want to give us
Stop the disrespect
Stop the lack of caring
If your husband knows you like to get flowers
You have told him
But, you still don’t receive them…
Sis, that’s the bare minimum
Make it stop, or deal with it
If he doesn’t help with the dishes because he feels like he shouldn’t have to because he worked his eight hours at work…
That’s the bare minimum
If she doesn’t cook for you after you get home after work, and she doesnt work, hasn’t done anything all day…
That, my brother is the bare minimum
Deal with it or don’t
You always have a choice
Ask yourself what’s the bare minimum for you?
Everyone has their own definition of what they want
For me, bare minimum ties with standards
If you have higher standards then shouldn’t want the bare minimum
If you have lower standards then you can live with the bare
If you go to a interview and your rate of pay is 20 a hour but they said they only giving 17
Are you going to take the bare?
Are you going to settle with it?
The medical doctor tells you, in order to keep living you have to lose 80 pounds
Are you just going to go home and live out the rest of your time?
Or are you going to change your diet and lose weight?
I’m not going to settle for less than the best because I know I am going to give you my best
Knowing when you getting the bare minimum is first
Knowing your worth is next
Then if you want to change it, how?
There is no such thing as less is more..
Less is freakin’ less