Why I started this!

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His Name is D

Didn’t know getting in your car was going to change my life forever I wasn’t planning on talking to you Wasn’t planning on even looking at you When you gave me your full attention, I gave you mine Your directness Forwardness Honesty You asked for my number In 48 hours we had our first date […]


Energy Feed my energy Feed my soul Feed my mind Feed my body Take some of me and put into you Take my source and add to yours Feel the heat from my body and let it flow into yours Touch me with your core Come on baby, let it pour Our souls become one […]


He met me in a awkward stage in my life Getting a divorce Living on my own Finding out who I am Am I Dom Am I Nikki Or am I Dominique? I am in a awkward stage I am learning my likes, dislikes What I like to eat What I like to do for […]

Blogging isn’t as easy as it looks, sure, you can make complete sentences but does it make sense?
Why are you writing?
Glad you asked 😏 I started for a few reasons:
I needed to stop writing my ideas in my journal (I didn’t say diary, even though that’s my blog name).
I have so many thoughts in my head that I have to get them out.
I wanted to become a full time blogger.
We all have a story to tell, I want you to read mine.

I do spend a good amount of time doing research for things that are important to me, religion, relationships, hobbies, just to name a few.
For example: on a older post that I put up I talked about how my former boss was a Muslim and how that impacked my life. It made my work harder, I had to work around his prayer time and Ramadan. I spent a lot of time talking to him about his religion and his views on life. I disagreed with a lot of it, but I also agreed with some of it, I wanted to get a bigger understanding. I love how they wrap their hair and the meaning behind it. I, too, wrap my hair, two different meanings but I understand why they do it. I wrap mine because it’s a type of style, or when I’m bored with doing my hair I will wrap it to hide that it isn’t styled, they wear a hijab as a way of curbing male sexual desire.
(I put a post of an article that I read long ago)

Working for him was the hardest thing I have done in my career. I love learning about different religions even though I would never change mine.

Okay y’all I’m rambling now LOL


I always wanted to be some type of writer but I didn’t think I was any good at it. This is the closest I can get to becoming one.
I want to do other things with my blog, I have an idea about going to other restaurants and trying their food and doing vlogs about the different places that are local to try out, how are the prices, are they mom and pop places, how’s the prices compared to preparing it yourself, and of course how’s the food.
Just some ideas that I have, I’m still working out the details and will go over that at a later date.

Guys, feel free to let me know what you would like me to do as well. Message me, and let me know some ideas, stories, ideas on life; relationships, love, and even parenting. Let me know what you would like to see a blog about.

Okay, y’all I can keep writing but I don’t want to bore you so I’m going to bounce over to my book I am reading called Untamed by Glennon Doyle, with my glass of wine, and a bottle of water. (gotta have balance)


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